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Thank You.

The funny thing about time is that it never seems to move fast enough when we want it to and yet, somehow, everything whizzes past in an instant. Three years of late nights, procrastinated motions, freaking out about sleeping through finals, and a collection of experiences I would not change for all the coffee in the world. Sure, it was difficult, and there were times I thought maybe I’d fall flat on my face (I’m looking at you, Secured Transactions), but the “J.D.” is incredibly wonderful to add to my signature. It was so much work but I am elated with the end result; I’d do it again, too.

Law school is officially over and I’m feeling all sorts of ways about it; thrilled to earn the degree, scared and somewhat intimidated about taking the Bar exam, frenzied to land the perfect job (more on that later), concerned about balancing my work life with my studies, and excited for the future that passing the Bar brings. I also kind of feel like a dog who caught its tail. I’d been chasing my own dreams for so long that now I’m nearly overwhelmed by the accomplishment.

I would never have gotten to this point without my support system. During the hardest moments – exam season, project deadlines, and an inordinate number of scheduled events – I leaned on my family and friends. Many of these incredible people stuck with me through it all. I lost a couple of friends, those who thought I was being selfish, who refused to understand the chaos of my life because “so many people go to law school. It’s not that hard” and the countless “you should visit/take a break, you’re always studying.” Those overly-toxic individuals simply didn’t make the cut. It was necessary to put myself first during these last three years (and for the next two months as I prep for the Bar exam).

I make no apologies for this.

Thankfully, my support system rarely failed me. Of course there were scheduling errors and distance issues, but we met for (nearly) weekly brunches, the occasional shopping trip, countless coffee runs, and my mom frequently stopped by to raid the (filled with the products of stress-baking) cookie jar and burgle a few bottles of (stress-purchased) wine. My brothers even pitched in hilarious hypos and attempted a few runs at crafting multiple choice questions here and there. It takes a village, y’all!

I couldn’t have accomplished this without you and I am incredibly thankful for every sacrifice you made to get me here. I know it wasn’t easy, and I spent many breaks a little too crabby, but I love you for doing what you could to help me reach this milestone.

I must have said this at least a dozen times to Melissa and Ashli…

These last three years were filled with challenges, some of which I thought might break me, and you – my amazing familia – were there to pull me through all of it. This win is for you. I love you fiercely. Thank you a million times over for making this Latina Lawyer’s dreams a reality.

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Closing Deals In Heels

This past week was a combination of brutal + exhilarating.
[The best times are a bit of both, wouldn’t you say?]

On top of classwork, extra-curricular activities, and working in the law library, I also drove to Austin to participate in the Public Interest Law Fair. The beau and I drove straight to Austin after a full day of classes. But you know what?

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The Consortium of Texas Law Schools hosted a job fair at UT-Law, and it was a great experience; I wanted to share my perspective.

Here’s what you need to know:

When you apply to these job fairs, it kind of feels like a cattle call. There’s a long list of potential employers that set out their criteria for interviewing (GPA threshold, Moot Court requirement, Law review requirement, 1L/2L/3L, etc.) – then it’s up to you to sift through them all and figure out which possibilities would be best for you.

Once you read through the descriptions, you upload your documents and start applying.

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Personally, I wanted a summer opportunity that would offer me the chance to be in court. Having only clerked in a Probate Court, and worked in the PD’s office (but never building an actual case), I felt those skills could be bolstered. This means I sifted through every opportunity and chose Law Clerk Summer positions that fit 1)courtroom experience, 2) writing and research tasks, and 3) challenge my current skillset.

I uploaded 3 letters of recommendation, a blanket cover letter (written to apply to each and every position [why? because I personalized 37 cover letters for a previous job fair and only received 1 interview. I thought shaking things up a bit was warranted]), the most recent transcript, and my résumé.

Once you apply to the positions you are interested in…you wait.

And wait some more.

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After a few weeks, the firms and/or government agencies post your worthiness.
I am happy to report that, of the eight positions I applied to, I received six interview invitations. ::woot::

Thankfully, I was able to cram all six interviews into a single day.

Friday morning started with a BANG! I hit the ground running, on pure adrenaline…because I tend to avoid eating before an interview. I made sure to print eight copies of my resume and writing sample, just in case an interviewer needed them.

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Here are the most important interview tips I have for you: 

1. Dress Professionally

For the love of legal briefs! Please do not show up to an interview looking like a cow chewed you up and spat you out. Wear some nice slacks and a button down, or a suit if you have one. I prefer to wear dresses to interviews, with a blazer. It’s comfortable, and usually means I don’t have to iron a crease into the pleats. Wearing a power suit is perfectly fine as well, but since we were traveling, I didn’t want to worry about packing an iron (in case the hotel didn’t have a working one, or whatever lack-of-iron-catastrophe would befall me). There are interesting takes on what attire is appropriate for interviews. I think the best thing to remember, especially for legal interns and young attorneys, is that we have not built our reputation just yet. Work on solidifying the foundation of your professionalism, and then [maybe…much later in your career] you can loosen up on the prim & proper points of your wardrobe. Maybe.

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2. Have extra copies of (at minimum) your [proofed] resume in your padfolio.

Do yourself a favor, and make the extra effort to be extra prepared. Although I always take extra copies into an interview, it is rare that I am asked to proffer anything. I have however, impressed a few interviewers with my preparation. The added prep gives your interviewer the notion that you are a professionally polished person, ready for anything, and prepared for everything.  That matters. People want to hire reliable associates, team members that can be counted on. This just adds an extra layer of greatness to what you’ve already put down on paper. Even better? It shows them you want the job, and you are willing to work hard. Our generation takes a bunch of crap for being “lazy” or “entitled.” That’s certainly not all of us, and it throws a pleasant curve ball to a veteran interviewer when you show up ready to for the game.
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3. Rise to the challenge.

In this particular set of interviews, the attorneys interviewing me all exhibited different tactics. The most-challenging interview was conducted in a large jury room. The heating unit was rather loud, and the attorneys barely spoke above a whisper. It was infuriating. I couldn’t tell if it was on purpose, so I decided to just be myself. I leaned forward in my seat, paid attention to what they each had to say, and – when they asked me the first question – I raised my voice higher than theirs and spoke. I felt like I was screaming, but that wasn’t true. The lead interviewer smiled, and then leaned forward in his chair and continued the conversation with more questions.

::It was a trick afterall::

Sometimes, interviewers will do things to throw you off; it’s a tactic to enable them the opportunity to see how you will react. When in doubt – be yourself. And remember, all of the interviewers were in your shoes at one time. They know what it feels like, and they will likely not try to break you down. Part of their job is to make sure they like you, because they’ll have to work with you.

Be bold. Be confident. Hell, strike a power pose in bathroom stall before you walk into the interview. Give yourself a pep-talk. Show them just how your intellect, tenacity, and charm will add value to their incredible team.

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4. Know Your Strengths & Weaknesses

In other words….practice for the damn thing! You know the interviewers are going to ask standard questions. So you need to PREPARE! Look up questions that interviewers tend to ask. There’s a whole slew of them available online. Do yourself a favor, and dive into them. The key is to prepare, without it appearing that you memorized each answer.

These interviews are a lot like speed-dating. You only get 20 minutes to impress these attorneys. It does not look great to have a ton of “umms,” “well, yeahs,” or “huh, hadn’t thought of that one before!” comments. You owe it to yourself to present the best candidate those interviewers are going to see, because you. are. fantastic!

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5. Research the Position!

Ladies and Gents…this is imperative. Do not, I repeat, do not go into an interview without reading about the company/firm/government agency you are interviewing with. That is the fastest way to get yourself dropped! Know exactly what your duties entail and have a prepared answer for why you’d like to work in criminal/family violence/immigration/patent law. Just trust me on this. Knowing about the company’s mission, or agency’s perview is important. These interviewers need to know that you actually give a damn about the work they do. Don’t muck it up.

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These tips are sure to get you in great shape for your interview.

Regardless of the occasion, interview as often as you can. The more practice you have, the better the conversation flows at the table. I share the above advice, as it was shared with me. For the sake of full disclosure, I [so far] received three offers from the six interviews. My summer is set and, quite frankly, I am thrilled to have the jobs lined up. I am truly looking forward to gaining a better insight to the federal court system, and the unique challenges those cases will encompass.

Now all I have to do is focus on my coursework and clinic cases this semester.
[More on the clinic later]

How are your plans going this semester?

 

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Spring Semester Goals

It’s really odd to think about being half-way done with law school.
Time flies when you’re drowning in enjoying case law, I guess.

Despite the law school struggles, I am incredibly thankful for making it thus far. There’s a helluvalot of work that goes into prepping for class, attending networking events, and maintaining up-to-date writing samples plus a resume. Seriously though – the effort is worth every ounce of energy you expel.

I went into fall 2017 finals feeling a bit deflated. I’d worked incredibly hard to prepare for all my exams, and just felt like I was coming up short. Dean’s List seemed like over-reaching. The fall semester was, for some unknown reason, just not as focused as I wanted it to be. [To be clear, I was unfocused.] I think I may have gotten dangerously close to burn-out. 

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I figure this semester deserves a fiercer beginning. I made sure to get off on the right foot, made it to class early to get a seat (although, I kind of cheated and had a friend save my favorite seat because I knew she was in the same classroom just before my earliest class), meal-prepped for the week, and updated my calendar for both class and study purposes. What brought this on? I was super inspired by this quote:

Be addicted to the feeling of having your life together.

How awesome is that? I kind of assume everyone has goals in life, so this quote makes complete sense to me. I think I’d go even further than wanting the feeling, and actually shooting to make your goals a reality.

What does it mean to you to have your life “together?”

My mom always reminds my brothers and I about “getting our PIG,” which stands for “Poop in a Group.” It’s a polite, southern momma’s way of saying “Get your Shit Together.”

Right now, together [for merevolves around these goals:

  1. Read everything for class. If not for my own self-improvement, then at least to avoid feeling like an idiot in class. [hey, who said I’m not up front?]
  2. Run three times a week. I love running. I love it almost more than reading [which is saying a whole lot], but since I hurt my back several weeks ago, I haven’t been able to run at all. Visiting my chiropractor has improved my mobility a whole heap!happy.gif
  3.  Spend Less. Law school is expensive enough without adding in lunch runs, coffee networking sessions, and purchasing extra supplements to help you through a class. My biggest expenditure is coffee. I’ve started setting my coffee maker the night before and waking up to that enticing aroma makes it sooo much easier to get out of bed. Since we are also planning for our wedding later this year, keeping that $200 a month in our bank account, instead of spending it out of sheer laziness, makes a huge difference in a short amount of time.
  4. Participate more. I sometimes feel that being part of so many law school organizations and law review means I’m active enough. This is only true, outside of class. I need to participate more in class; speak up and volunteer when a professor questions the ether. It forces me to not just prepare for class, but to really think about how the law applies to various situations. After all, the end goal is to become a practicing attorney!

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This semester, I plan to dedicate more time to everything I need to do, and spend waaay less time on distractors. I highly recommend you evaluate your own performance, as well as the goals you set for yourself. 

Be productive. Work hard. Make the grade!

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3 Tips for Keeping Your Relationship Afloat In Law School

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In case you don’t already know – Law School is difficult. It’s an experience no one can understand until they’ve been through it. Yeah, you’ve heard that before – but it’s completely true. I feel that in order to get past the crappy parts, you need to pick a point in your near-future and focus on it like your entire life depends on getting there. If I break my concentration, letting other minutiae get in the way, then I not only derailed myself, but I get too lax with my thinking. It’s important to remember: the goal comes first.

The problem with that thought though? My goals are not wholly my own.
My entire being revolves around the existence of my other half. If I forget that he is part of my goals, then my anchor is missing. That just will not do. 

Before beginning my legal education, I met with multiple professors (and Deans even) – all of whom said something about how relationships fail, in fact, “it’s expected!” Many of them had a horror story or two tell me about their own romances; each one left me more bummed than the last.

It didn’t help that we were required to read “1L of a Ride.”
No siree, that little gem only made me feel worse about beginning my legal education.
As midterms are fast approaching, I felt it prudent to dish out a few ways the Beau and I make our relationship work because, let’s face it – there will be no cooking, cleaning, organizing, or much talking from me for the next two weeks. Lord knows you’re going through this too, which means you may need to pass this to your significant other so they can get a glimpse of the madness that goes on in the mind of a law student. Or, you know, so they can see they’re not the only one being neglected

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  1. We work to make each other laugh. He’s an engineer and I’m in law school – which means that we have healthy debates about everything from furry socks to download internet policy law (seriously). But, in between the long talks and coffee runs, he makes me laugh! The deep down, belly-ache type of laughter that brings tears and snorts to my daily life. By comparison, he might catch me talking to the vegetables or dancing with chicken in the kitchen (yeah, I have some flair).
  2. Set time aside for the people you love. I plan my life around campus activities, meetings, classes, and study time – but there’s also brunch, coffee runs, and gym time! I’ve said this multiple times….ORGANIZE your LIFE!
    Sure, adding calendar events may seem tedious, but having the reminders to work on assignments (or even to eat lunch) are crucial to acing your legal education. As an added bonus, your family will appreciate the time you make for them in your crazy-hectic law school soap-opera lifestyle.blogcalendar
  3. This last one is the most important. You need to remember that even though your end goal is to become a badass attorney, you also need to make time to build yourself up. It is necessary for you to carve a few minutes out of your week to do something that makes you insanely happy. My happy place? Anywhere, surrounded by books.
    No, I don’t lurk around our law library (okay…sometimes). I enjoy walking around Half-Price books, Barnes and Noble, or even the local Dallas Public libraries. My heart feels happier when surrounded by the magical tales and giant encyclopedias.
    You need to find your happy place. Make time to focus on yourself, for a few minutes a week. The reason this helps (your relationship and your studies) is because by focusing on what makes you happy – you are physically and emotionally re-centering your life. Balance is a key to any major endeavor; in law school, you need it in spades.

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Now go out there and be amazing.

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Twenty-Something Wisdom

I searched the inter-webs for other inspirational lists, but didn’t connect with a lot out there. I guess no other nerdy teachers with a passion for science, chocolate and over sharing juicy life tidbits while getting body waxes felt the need to give me any sherpa-like guidance through my first quarter century.

No limp sushi-roll issue there. Instead, I’ll share my own limitless wisdom with you.

Here are the things I think all 20-somethings should do before turning 30, because you shouldn’t get to 25 and feel like you’re done with your twenties! Oh contraire, you’ve got so much left to experience, lovely ducky.

From my loudly opinionated mind for your eyes to feast on:

1. Save money.

Don't rack up those bills! Be smart about your splurging and even smarter with your savings!
Don’t rack up those bills! Be smart about your splurging and even smarter with your savings!

As much as you can, for as long as you can. No one really explains just how quickly your awesome day can steamroll over your sexy black dress, break a heel, blow a couple of tires and then get assaulted by a rogue rock on the freeway. All these things cost money to repair or replace, so keep in mind – being an adult with your money will help keep you afloat.

2. Fall in lust, love and even off the bed. [If you’re doing it right, there will be a minor injury here or there.]
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Let’s face it, the younger YOLO-loving portion of our generation is known for making less-than-desirable choices, but when it comes to significant others – I tend to side with those who live a bit more freely than most. If you’re lucky enough to find your one, then stop looking for someone better. Be happy with the adventures you share.

3. Taste every foodie thing you find.
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Seriously. Take a cue from Andrew Zimmern and eat some calf fries! Try everything. As an allergy-sufferer, I’m constantly worried about eating something that will make me bust out in hives, but who knows what you’d miss if you’re always scared?

4. Learn how to bake and cook for yourself.
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Not enough youngins know how to fend for themselves. The beau tends to cook with everything but the kitchen sink. He has a method to his madness though. Everything he makes is yummy. Unfortunately, not all college cooks are so lucky. Many of my friends rely on ramen, frozen pizza or the prepared counter at Central Market. Learn how to make dishes you enjoy, it’ll be healthier for you and better for your wallet.

5. Care for something other than yourself.
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We adopted Eevee just about a month ago. I’d been wanting a running buddy for the past few years and finally decided to make the commitment. She needed me as much as I needed her. The beau didn’t even realize what our household was missing until I brought her home. She’s perfect, in all her goofiness and we lurve her oodles!

6. Travel
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Do it! Just go to the airport and pick a flight leaving soon. Or, for the Type-A adventurer, plan a trip and then go. Whichever way you choose to travel – make it memorable. Take pictures, find the cute guys giving (credible) Vespa tours, go shark diving, experience Taste of Chicago, taste violet ice cream, eat snails, squidge your toes in white sand. Just GO! [If you can go with your bestie, then DO!]

7. Host a family gathering at your rinky-dink apartment.

[and take bundles of dorky pictures]
[and take bundles of dorky pictures]

It will be stressful, borderline-psychotic and leave you in tears, but there is nothing like prepping, paying for and hosting an adult event to really feel like you’ve gotten a firm grip on your young adult life. Even if it is for one harried Thanksgiving feast.

8. Volunteer
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Find a passion in helping others. There are organizations for everyone and so many wonderful causes who need your help. Get out there and share your heart with the world. You’ll spread love and be loved. Nothing is better.

9. Express yourself & live in every moment
So get out there and live!

Spent my 25th with awesome people, loved every moment!
Spent my 25th with awesome people, loved every moment!

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Looking Good Nude

I always liked the phrase, “in the buff” but I’ve come to the realization that I rather prefer the beau “buff” instead of myself. I don’t see myself being a buff woman. I do, however, want to be a strong woman. I’ve got the strong mind, strong spirit down – but I really need to work on the strong abs and impressive biceps. [You know, if I ever need to knock someone the hell out.]

My main problem? I look like this when I see chocolate cake:

Muahahah!
Muahahah!

Imagine my surprise when these biceps decided not to morph into awesome chop blocks overnight. Who’d have thought?

Spring Break is next week and instead of having a beach body, I’m still working on reversing the winter couch potato. Seriously. I’ve gained 3 pounds since December and, quite frankly, I’m not upset about it. I could tell you it’s water weight, or muscle weight or some other stupid thing, but all it would be is just an excuse.

I’ve used Graduate School and teaching as a crutch to avoid the gym. [and asthma too, but that’s a real problem when Texas is experiencing freakish weather]

Agreed.
Agreed.

So you’re thinking, what am I going to do about it?
Cut back on brownies? (as if!)
Replace butter with Chobani? (Ok – maybe, yes, a bit)

Honestly, I’m going to run more and eat whatever the heck I want!
These glutes need to bust loose and I need to stop making excuses.

My goal for this year – Looking Good Nude. Starting now.
Why not?

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It’s really fine. Trust me.
Get out there and run, sweetheart. Let’s look good nude! Not necessarily together, but apart – in the awesomest of ways.

Much love,
CerebellumChef

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Booty-Shakin’

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Amen!

I realize there are plenty of skinny chefs, but this made me smile. :]
Everyone has a different idea of “skinny” – but we should all have the same idea of fit. Eating healthier and focusing on better-for-you foods and exercises. Again, this could be different for all – but we can definitely agree on one thing.

 

FOOD!

 

Food is wonderful. Scrumptious. Decadent. Freeing.
That’s it! Food is freeing!

I look so much like the chef from The Muppets when I’m banging pans around in the kitchen. The beau says it’s a real sight to see. Sometime soon I’ll post a video of my cooking adventures. I tend to talk to the fruits and veggies, and usually apologize to the carnes when I get ready to sear them.

Anywho…

Let me tell you how this all relates to booty-shaking!
You see…my students taught me how to twerk. Well, they twerked and I laughed because there is no way that is ever appropriate to do [seriously, never] and I can’t dance like that. Maybe, at all.

That said, I don’t much like to use dance as a positive form of weight loss. [An ex-boyfriend completely ruined DDR for me. Long story.]
Since I can’t bust my rump in the comfort of my own home, I’ve decided to switch things up a bit. I’m taking ideas and options please, so share them!

After falling off the fit-truck over the past few weeks (and gaining 5 pounds)…I finally made it out to the rock gym! I’m even stoked about running again. My muscles miss the yummy ache of a five mile run.
How are your weight loss goals going?

I hope you’re shaking your groove thang and shedding those pounds!

 

Much love,
CerebellumChef

 

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Spinning My Excuses

Be careful of the yeah-but. the yeah-but will kill your dreams. – Jeff Goins

It’s finals week, friends.

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Oh, Peanuts – you always have it right.

Which means that I am trying to keep my eye on the prize. [and not let any “yeah-buts” get in my way.]
This means that I’ve been neglecting my blog [and you, my lovelies] because I’ve been drowning crying studying like crazy – well, maybe not so much. It’s been a mad CRAM the past few days.

So much has happened since my last post!

Update:
My birthday was April 23! I am now a “certified adult” [as proclaimed by my younger brother], a legitimate 20-something, instead of a young adult.
Twenty-four years old…it feels wonderful!

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[Sabrina The Teenage Witch]

What else?

We’ve moved into a new apartment! It’s wonderful, quiet and has a gorgeous balcony. I’m in love with our new kitchen. Culinary greatness will be happening in there. I’ll be sure to post pictures, soon.
We’ve got oodles of decorating to do.
Ohmygooooodness!

It’s just been a wonderful ride. The beau got his first post-grad job! He earned himself some yummy chocoflan.

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Check out SweetLittleCakes!

The boys ate these lovelies so fast that I wasn’t able to take a picture! 🙁
Anyhow…there’s lots of fun and exciting things coming up.
I’m starting a VLOG! I’ll also be posting these recipes that I keep promising. Honestly, I have them all – I simply haven’t been able to code the drop-box and menu. I’ll get to it once finals are over.
I promise!

I’ve had enough of the “yeah-but” issues. No more excuses.
The gym has seen more of me these days too. 3 miles a day.
New goal?

15 pounds down by June 1.

What “yeahh-buts” are you letting run your life?
Kick ’em to the curb and gain some perspective.
Take back control of your goals and get at it!

Much love,
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